*this is courtesy of a friends of mine, based on our factual conversations several times a go, she wrote on her tumblr with original tittles " Some wise advice from a dear friend :)", here it is, with an adaptation.
Me : Let me ask you something. What makes you happy?Dearest Friend : For now, I think seeing my mother would be enough for me.
Me : Are you sure? I mean small things.
Dearest Friend : Small things?
Me : Like me, twitter makes me happy, my job, even though it makes me go insane but it's satisfying.
Dearest Friend : Things you don't realize put some colors in your life ya?
Me : Yes.. I bet you never thought of that. That's because you're often thinking about what he thought of you. How he feels towards you.
Dearest Friend : ....
Me : While it's not supposed to be like that. You have your own life and you deserve to be happy. Other people doesn't make you happy. You make yourself happy. We're no longer a child who could always ask other people or other things to make us happy. We're grown ups now. Bottom line is, you have to make yourself content before you let someone else offer you some happiness so when that someone is gone, you won't lose your light of happiness, because just you, and only you, is already a happy person.
love,
M.I
