Senin, 15 Juni 2009

He's just not that into Me! ;D

I just read Dea's very cool notes, about what a New York times best seller : "He's just not that into you" book wanna share with girls like us.

And with my respect to my friend : Dea, and because i love her notes so much, i also wanna share the very important information to you Girls!
you can easy checking the link of dea's notes, or if u wanna get more easier way, here i just pasting it for u ;D

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Okay, here's the situation: bunch of my girls ask me about the book, the curiosity is spreading like wildfire. So I decided to copy the important points from here which are based on the book.
*grin*
Hope you girls can enjoy this!
*and guys, don't you dare come up with another lame excuse.*
xoxo


Chapter 1
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Asking You Out


Because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out.
Men find it very satisfying to get what they want.
If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons, needs to take things slow, he will let you know immediately. He won't keep you guessing because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away.
Don't let him trick you into asking you out.
Men, for most part, like to pursue women.
An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship.".
You are good enough to be asked out.


Chapter 2
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You


Men know how to use the phone. *oh for God's sake, please don't let me start on it again!
When you like someone, they just don't slip your mind.
You know they mean it when they actually do what they said they were going to do.
Men are never too busy to get what they want. *this is my FAVORITE one.*
If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.
If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.
You deserve a f*cking phone call.


Chapter 3
He's Just Not That Into You Is He's Not Dating You


"Hanging out" is not dating.
A man who's really into you is going to want you all to himself.
Better than nothing is not good enough for you! *need I say more, darling?
If you don't know where the relationship is going, it's okay to pull over and ask.
There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone he's your boyfriend. *don't laugh. It's true, darling.*


Chapter 4
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex With You

*a little note from me: this is the part I skipped. It's irrelevant.*

When men like you, they want to touch you, always.
If a man is not trying to undress you, he's just not that into you.
If you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppy. *yes, I laugh so loud at this line*
There's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff.


Chapter 5
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex With Someone Else

*no comment*

There's never going to be a good excuse for cheating.
Cheating doesn't just "happen". It was planned and executed with the full knowledge that it could end your relationship.
Cheating is a complete betrayal of trust.
100% of guys polled said that they have never accidentally slept with anyone. *any dumb would know!*


Chapter 6
He's Just Not That Into You If He Only Wants To See You When He's Drunk

*another no comment*

If he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impaired.
It doesn't count unless he says it when he's sober.
Drinking and drug use are not a path to one's innermost feelings.
You deserve to be with someone who doesn't have to get loaded to be around you.


Chapter 7
He's Just Not That Into You If He Doesn't Want To Marry You


Love cures commitment phobia.
Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.
If you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?
There's a guy out there who wants to marry you. *hell yeah!*


Chapter 8
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Breaking Up With You


"I don't want to go out with you" means just that.
Always be classy. Never be crazy.
A breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one.
Breakup sex means you're still broken up.
Cut him off. Let him miss you.


Chapter 9
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Disapppeared On You


Sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself.
There's nothing worse than having no answer. No answer is your answer.
Don't give him the chance to reject you again.
There's no mystery-he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you. *another hell yeah!*


Chapter 10
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Married (And Other Insane Variations Of Being Unavailable)


If you're not able to love fully, it's not really love.
He's married. Unless he's all yours, he's still hers. Don't be that girl


Chapter 11
He's Just Not That Into You If He's A Selfish Jerk, A Bully, Or A Really Big Freak


If you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy.
You are the catch.
Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with. *light the fire and dance all night, girls!*



Don't waste the pretty! :)

Lots of love,
D.


oh I wish I were Oprah. I would give this book along with a bucket of ice cream and chocolate, send it right to your bed, to all of you!"

.Cheers

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love it. hahaha. :))

"Men are never too busy to get what they want."